1. Plan together
Organising a holiday can be exciting whether you are nine or 90. Cool facts, so build up the excitement by planning together. You will also find out what really captures the children’s imagination, what they want to do, and what they would like to see – which will help plan for life in resort.
2. Slow travel
Leave time for everything. If you packed your case on the morning of travel before children came into your life, switch it to the day before, or the week before. Head to the airport with plenty of time to spare because something is more likely to go wrong when toddlers or teenagers are in tow.
3. Pack-police
Do not let the kids do their own packing. It might seem like a time-saving technique to have one less bag to do but if you let an eight-year-old have this level of independence they will probably not use it wisely. Your definition of essentials and theirs are likely to be rather different.
4. Plane sailing
Entertainment on planes is still a bit hit-and-miss so get some good apps on your tablet or phone to keep the little ones entertained. While it is not great for children to be on devices all the time, planes are a good exception. It saves you carrying toys and books around and where you are going the children will shift their attention to the beach pretty quickly.
5. Hotel heaven or hell
The resort you choose is the single most important decision. No pressure. Research is really vital because lots of places claim all sorts of things, and hyperbole is not uncommon. Go for a trusted brand with a solid website with lots of decent photography and good reviews. Also make sure it offers what you and your kids want.
6. Club kids
Whether you want to spend all your time together as a family or very little, the best hotels have so much cool stuff for your children to do with other kids and staff that they are going to want to join in. In school holidays these things can get booked up so if you wait till you get to the hotel you might be disappointed.
7. Happy arrival
If you have a baby or a toddler there is a lot of kit that needs carting around. Some of the best resorts can alleviate your stress and back ache because they have packs with everything you might need. These need to be pre-ordered but the effort is more than rewarded.
8. Qualified staff
Travel is a global business and the rules in each country are different. So the qualifications required to babysit your child or teach them to sail can be a little lax in some places. It is worth checking with the resort that you choose to see how well trained and how qualified those looking after your family are.
9. What’s included
Do not read the words “all inclusive” and make the mistake of thinking everything is included. It never is. A lot of hotels do offer a great deal but inevitably some things will cost extra, so check that you know what you are buying and how much extra you are likely to have to pay for add-ons.
10. Home help
While the kids’ rock collections probably should not make the journey, if this is your children’s first foray away from home having a couple of familiar things with them will help avoid any homesickness or worry. A favourite bear, blanket or book will not take too much space and will put your and their minds at ease.
11. Provide purpose
Once children get past being a toddler the biggest challenge is boredom, especially on the way to and from a resort. Hand them a digital camera and a notepad and give them the task of documenting the journey and you will find the number of “Are we nearly there yets?” will decline.
12. Healthy holiday
In a resort with lots going on and great facilities the children will be running around and getting fitter by the minute. But there is no harm in also seeing if you can persuade them to eat healthily on occasion. Find a resort with delicious healthy menus alongside the other food and you may create habits that last a lifetime


